You have tried everything. You have read the books, gone to therapy, set boundaries, and done the self-work. And yet, the same patterns keep showing up in your relationships. You attract the same type of person. You hit the same wall. You end up in the same place.
If this sounds familiar, the problem is not your choice of partner. The problem is the subconscious pattern running beneath your awareness.
How Your Subconscious Shapes Your Relationships
Your subconscious mind holds a blueprint for what love looks like. This blueprint was formed in your early years by your parents, caregivers, and early experiences. If your blueprint says that love is conditional, that love requires you to shrink, or that people leave, your subconscious will find partners and situations that match that blueprint.
This is not a conscious choice. You do not decide to fall for unavailable people. Your subconscious is drawn to them because they feel familiar. The chemistry you feel is often just recognition of a pattern you already know.
The Most Common Subconscious Relationship Blocks
- Fear of abandonment: You expect people to leave, so you either cling too tightly or leave first to avoid being abandoned.
- Fear of engulfment: You fear losing yourself in a relationship, so you keep people at arm’s length.
- Belief that you are not enough: You believe you have to earn love by being perfect, pleasing, or achieving.
- Carrying unresolved pain: Past betrayals, heartbreaks, or childhood wounds that were never fully healed.
- Trust issues: Your subconscious has learned that people cannot be trusted, so it keeps you hypervigilant and guarded.
How RTT Heals Relationship Patterns
RTT works by taking you back to the root cause of your relationship pattern. This is often a moment in childhood where you formed a belief about love, trust, or your own worthiness. In a deeply relaxed hypnotic state, you access that memory and the emotion attached to it.
Once the root cause is identified, your therapist helps you reframe it. You receive a new belief that serves your highest good. The old pattern loses its power because the belief that drove it has been rewritten.
After a single session, many people report that they no longer feel drawn to unavailable partners, they can communicate more openly, and they finally feel worthy of the love they desire.
You Cannot Change What You Do Not See
The reason your relationship patterns have not changed despite all your efforts is simple: you have been trying to change the symptoms rather than the root cause. You have been choosing different partners while carrying the same subconscious blueprint.
When you heal the blueprint, everything changes. You stop attracting the wrong people because they no longer feel familiar. You start attracting the right people because your vibration has shifted.
Healing Is Possible
Marisa Peer has helped thousands of people transform their relationship patterns using RTT. Whether you are trying to heal from a breakup, break a cycle of toxic relationships, or finally feel worthy of the love you desire, the answer lies in your subconscious. And it can change faster than you think.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why do I keep attracting the wrong partners?
You attract partners who match your subconscious beliefs about yourself and what you deserve. If you carry an unhealed belief that you are not worthy of love, you will unconsciously gravitate toward people who confirm that belief.
Can hypnotherapy help with relationship issues?
Yes. RTT addresses the root subconscious beliefs that drive your relationship patterns. Once those beliefs are rewritten, your choices and experiences in relationships change naturally.
How do I break the cycle of toxic relationships?
Breaking the cycle requires healing the part of you that believed you deserved less than you do. RTT can identify and heal the original wound in a single session.
Why do I push people away when they get close?
This is often a protection mechanism formed by early attachment experiences. Your subconscious learned that closeness leads to pain, so it creates distance to protect you. RTT can reprogram this response.
Can RTT help me trust again after betrayal?
Absolutely. RTT works directly with the fear and the broken trust at the subconscious level, helping you release the past without denying what happened.
